"Look around less, imagine more."
 Esther Hicks (via yeshecholwa)


hi this is a quick reminder that you are important and beautiful and you deserve to be happy!!!

Yes I’m still here. I have MY tiny little spot at the harbour and I love everything about it ♥

July 2014: introvert power!

And from a sunny and unnaturaly hot Finland: hello there world!

July is over and our trip to Italy gets closer and closer (still few days to go). Anyway, may I be honest with you? I’m not in the best shape ever at the moment: my stomach is misbehaving and won’t let me neither eat nor sleep in peace. Bad stomach, so bad of you. Hell no, I don’t want to complain, let’s carry on.

Here I am as ever to list all the blessings and lessons this month brought in my life! - let’s make it short and fast cause I desperately need to lay down (yes yes, no complaining, no complaining).

I’ve been hanging aroung with friends, going for drinks and lunches and shopping. We’ve been to a big open air electronic music party in Alppipuisto (Helsinki) and both the music and the atmosphere were great!

My boyfriend brought me breakfast in bed on a Sunday morning and yes, nobody has never ever done anything like that for me. Lucky girl, sure I know that!  

I went to spend some quiet time alone in the big library in Rikhardinkatu and there I’ve found one of the best book I’ve ever read about introversion (yes guys, that’s what I am: an introvert). It made me understand so many things about myself and other introverted people in my life. Now I have a clear idea of why I do behave in certain ways and what can I do to cooperate with myself. Enlightening.

Are you an introvert? You should really read this book: “Introvert Power” (yes, as the title of my post says).

I participated in a Role Play game convention called Ropecon. I’m not into this kind of things but I had promised my man (which is particularly into this kind of things) to give it a try. You know, I honestly didn’t understand almost anything of what was happening around me, but still I saw lots of good looking costumes and watched few super fake wrestling matches, which were the funniest thing ever! 

And in conclusion, it’s time for the lessons I’ve been taught during this month of July (I swear my stomach is killing me):

- The word “should” is a good indication that somebody else’s standards are involved [Laurie Helgoe - Introvert Power]

- Try everything at least once.

- It’s ok to be in need of a break from people, and the human race should really start getting rid of the preconceived idea that “big parties are a lot of fun”.

- One year and 7 months in Finland and still I love it like I’ve never loved anything else before! (pay attention, I wrote “anything else” and not “anybody else”)

- Latin classes were not so useless after all!

And now here you are August! I can foresee a grumpy stomach getting better, a 10 days trip, two meetings with two of the best friends I’ve ever had and haven’t seen for awhile, and who knows… Whatever amazing things you have there in store for me life, you know where to find me! 


Muscles and violence? YES PLEASE! #ropecon #wrestling #suomi #finland



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Finnish person struggling to remember what they were about to say next

June 2014: revision test!

Hello there! I know I’m late (assuming that somebody cares), my bad! 

Of course I could tell you that I’ve been too busy to update my blog, but this girl is really bad at lying so, no excuses: I’ve been too busy being lazy! 

However, I’m still here posting the monthly recap of my life despite the laziness. So are you ready? Three, two, one…

First of all, it was time to deal with a bunch of bureaucratic things, which is an alternative way to say that I’ve been queuing endlessly almost everywhere. As I told my boyfriend some time ago: “If anybody asks me what do I like to do in my spare time, the answer will be: queuing”.
In any case it’s over now, and I can pat myself on the shoulder adding that I’m really pleased with Finnish administration!

What else then… Well, it’s summer in Finland! We had picnics and barbecues, thumbs up!

My lovely one had also a birthday, and it always makes me feel good taking care of this kind of things! You know: buying presents, baking, cooking, and being all like “happy birthday my sweety lovely sugary biri bu” *cough cough* yes, that’s me…

Moreover, we had a Skype call with my family in Italy (we will fly there in August, just saying) and it was incredibly funny to hear my boy and mum try to communicate without sharing a common language, since she doesn’t speak English (just some really basic stuff), and of course he doesn’t speak any Italian yet!

We’ve started to bring some furniture and personal stuff to the new flat. Nonetheless, the place is not ready to live in yet, it will take still one month more or less, and I’m so looking forward to move there!

Last but not least, there’s this Irish pub in Helsinki where I’ve been wanting to go for more than one year, and finally I had a beer in there! Yes it’s a small thing, but really appreciated!

Lastly, what can I say about my monthly lessons? 

Nothing new in all honesty, just a good and complete revision of what I’ve learned during the last six months, and it makes perfect sense if you think about it; we’re in the middle of the year after all!

So, the first half is gone and I couldn’t be any happier about it, time to let the second part begin and welcome July, show me your magic!


Finnish summer + good music = thank you life ♥ #alppipuisto #helsinki

Your electronic bitch says “hello there”, it’s summer in Finland! #electronicmusic #alppipuisto #rave #helsinki #finland #thatstrangethingcalledsun

Helsinki is: sea, nature, peacefulness and a BOMB #katajanokka #helsinki #suomi #finland
I texted my man to tell him I was sad. This is what happened one hour later! #sugarymoments metaphorically and literally speaking ♥ #thespoiledbitchIam #braceyourselfregretsarecoming


May 2014, aka: how to turn a life upside down in few days.

Unfortunately my renowned love for privacy prevents me from writing many details about an amazing thing happened during this month, but let me try to narrate the whole event without being too specific.

First of all: I had a problem, which was a kind of tiny little giant huge xxl problem. I allowed myself a couple of days of despair and then lifted my head up and started applying my positive thinking again. The technique - as some of you may already know - consists of focusing neither on the problem nor on the possible ways to get rid of it; I just tried to concentrate on the sensation of relief, carefreeness and serenity one gets right after solving a problem. And then it all happened so fast, so fast it took my breath away. I still remember the moment when I got that phone call, that moment when I was offered the solution on a silver tray, all shiny and so damn perfect in every single aspect. It was not just the solution to that blasted problem I had, it was also the solution to many other smaller issues that had to be solved in the future. It was so perfect I had to convince myself that it was really happening to me, and after that I cried out of gratitude. 

As I’ve already told you, I won’t give you any further infos about the whole story, I will just add that that perfect solution required a big turn in my life. Well, here we go, two weeks after the phone call I started a completely new life again, always in Helsinki, happier than before! 

So that was the biggest blessing of this month, but of course many other great things have happened, like: celebrating Vappu (which is one of my favourite festivities here. Finland goes totally crazy during that day!), taking part in the first housewarming party of my life, enjoying nightlife in Helsinki, going on a short trip to Tampere (I really like that city!) to take part in the third electronic music party of the year, celebrating a peaceful Aitienpäivä (mother’s day) at my boyfriend’s parents’ place, and he somehow managed to take me to the movies (everybody knows I hate watching movies) and I actually had fun (the movie was bad though, like “seriously wtf?”), then we went to two different graduation parties and suddenly this May 2014 was over.

And last but definitely not least, since it’s official and I cannot keep it to myself anymore: *BAM* (the sound wishes make when they come true) me and my boyfriend will move together in few weeks in our flat in Helsinki! Useless to say I’m in a hyper-state of wild-unbounded happiness for that, right? I will tell you more details about it in the end of June though! Stay tuned!

What a May guys, how many turning points, my life is changing so fast this year I still can’t believe it. But everything is changing for the better, and when your wishes materialize in front of your eyes out of nothing… Well, I can’t really complain about it, can I? ;)

And now it’s time to recap the lessons life has taught me during the last 31 days:

- It’s not more “me” and “him”, now it’s “us”.

- “Nothing ever goes away until it teaches us what we need to know”

- Focus on solutions, not problems.

- A clear defined idea of the woman I want to be, the man I want to marry, and how I want to raise my children.

And yes, welcome June and all the blessings and lessons that are coming my way! <3



The best thing about being in a relationship with someone is doing cute stuff and then being able to fuck the shit out of them whenever you want

Tampere electronic nightlife: approved! #yo-talo #illuminight #tampere #electronicmusic #nightlife #finland #suomi #partyallnightlong #comebackhomeat7halfdead